5 Sex Positions to Last Longer in Bed
- Hakima Tantrika
- Jul 1, 2021
- 3 min read
Updated: Apr 7, 2023
Your baby will thank you

Photo by Sammy Williams on Unsplash
Babe, is great sex something you want more of? Then, ejaculating too quickly can be a roadblock to longer and better sex.
There is nothing more disappointing than finishing before you want to. If this has happened to you, don’t be ashamed about it. As many as 1/3 of men in the United-States say that they’ve experienced premature ejaculation at least once. So it’s way more common than you think. Thankfully, there is a lot you can do to last longer. Choosing positions that will help you last longer is the simplest choice.
Lasting longer in bed means:
You’ll have more sex;
You’ll be spending more time connecting with your baby. The deeper the connection between you and her, the greater the sex can become;
The longer you last, the longer she has to enjoy herself. It means she is more likely to have an amazing orgasm. If you’re interested in giving her a full-body orgasm, you can read How to Give Her a Full Body Orgasm.
Lastly, when you’re able to last longer in bed, you’re proving your strength. The control it takes to delay ejaculation is something you can take pride in.
So, what feels better than satisfying your pride, your cock, and your baby at the same time? The 5 positions that I will share with you will help you achieve that.
How the positions help and how to make the best of them
It’s often the deep and fast thrusts that bring ejaculation. So, by selecting positions that limit your depth and speed, you can reduce the chances of a hasty finish.
Breath control and mental relaxation will compound the effectiveness of these positions. Breathe slowly and deeply. Pay attention to when your muscles tense, and keep them relaxed. Be present: the more focused you are on not ejaculating, the less present you are with the wonderful sex you’re having. Keep an open mind, and remember that practice makes perfect.
So without further ado, here are the 5 sex positions to last longer in bed.
#1: Missionary
Although it’s the most common position, when done right, it can support your overall endurance. If your baby’s knees remain level with or below your hips, the depth and angle of penetration is limited, which will help you last longer.
Lay on top of your baby, and position yourself between her legs. Enter facing her. Do not lift her legs or hips too high, as this will increase the intensity of sensation.
#2: Side-by-side
This position is like the Missionary but with a twist. It’s a position where both of you have some control over depth and speed, and it supports your stamina in the same way that Missionary does.
Both of you will lay on your sides facing each other. Have your baby wrap one leg around your hips, giving you access for entry.
#3: Spooning
It’s by far the easiest position on this list. This position limits the depth of penetration and keeps you cool.
Lay side by side with your baby with her facing away; she will be the little spoon. Position yourself so you can stimulate and stroke her body with your hands. Enter her from behind.
#4: Woman-on-top
Your baby on top will limit your range of motion, which is good, as the less you thrust, the longer you will last. Your baby gets to determine the pace when she’s on top, which means more pleasure for her, and a longer session for you.
If you’ve ever heard of cowgirl, this is very similar. The difference here is that your baby will lay chest to chest with you.
#5: Both-seated
This position is great for lasting longer and offers a great view. It focuses more on deep penetration rather than thrusts.
Sit in a chair and have your baby sit down on your lap, facing away from you. Insert yourself as she lowers onto you. You may want something for her to grab onto, like a couch or table, so she can keep her balance and rest her legs.
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With these 5 positions, you’ll be sure to last longer with your baby. Remember to apply breath control, and your sex will be longer and hotter than ever.
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